In society, lying is a common
behavior and it is also a part of human nature. We no need to take any
classes or call someone to teach us about it. Therefore, honestly already
replace by the lying because people only looking out for themselves. Hence,
it is much easier to lie because we want to fix the trouble in our life and to
escape the bad consequences. The lies can separate into two kinds, black
lies and white lies. Black lies will hurt the people while white lies are
protecting others to make them feel better. In short, we are trying to lie
because our own reason such as cover the truth, for own selfish gain, run away
from punishment or protect others.
For example, for the purpose of
late back home, we are lying parents about going to a friend¡¯s house to discuss
the assignment until late night. We want to cover the truth so that we do not
get in trouble. We scare to tell the truth and will reject by the parents.
Hence, we repeat to lie, even though they are not necessary. A person who
lies may not have done anything wrong, but would rather not have to give reason
to explain it. So, we try to cover the truth in order to avoid our parents
worry or restrict our freedom.
Otherwise, many people lie for
their own selfish gain such as for self-defense or to present a good image in
front of the others. They lie for their own benefit. This is because when we
been caught, what can do? We Lie. For example, some children will
lie to their parents about how much of their homework they have done or they
praise by the teacher to present a good image. Others, when assignment deadline
is coming soon, we always say that we almost done it that group leader asked
when the truth is we haven't even started yet. This is because we just looking
out of ourselves benefit and to avoid the consequences.
In the order hand, we scare
that we have done something that will disappoint others. So, we lie in order to
protect others. This lies are call the ¡°white lies¡±. This lies can protect the
feeling of the people and means ignoring the truth and no damage comes from the
lie. It does not harm anyone. One example of a common white lie is
"You so slim!¡±. To some people, a white lie will make them happy and
comfort their spirit. They are also from being hurt.
In
addition, when we do the wrong things, one choice to run away from punishment
is lie. We scare about the punishment and suffering from the consequences. For
example, some parent very care about their children result, if their children
did not reach the standard, their parents will punished them. As a result, the
children will try to lie their parents the paper haven give back or they change
their marks by own. They only want to escape from the punishment.
In conclusion, there are many
reasons why people lie. Lies are an evil? It depends on situation. Some people
feel that use lying to do the right things is okay, but others think that lying
will bring consequences to us. If not necessary, I agree with tell
the truth is much better.
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