Sometimes, when
you're walking down the street and you see a couple coming your way and you
notice that they're carrying a garbage bag--because they're picking up litter
and trash as they walk along--it's easy to see the goodness in other people,
and to feel positive about the ways that other people live and the things that
they do.
When a co-worker
gets a phone call and is told that someone turned in the digital camera that
she had lost a few days earlier, it's easy to believe that there's a great deal
of goodness in the world, and that most people, when given the opportunity,
will do the right things rather than the selfish or greedy things.
When I see
someone compliment another person for no obvious reason, or encourage them to
do their best even when that person gets no obvious benefit from the other
person's action, then it's easy to see that human beings are generally very
helpful and considerate beings, whether we always show it or not.
When I read about
lawyers taking on cases for people who can't afford legal representation, or
doctors and dentists performing surgery for people who need it but can't afford
it, or business people donating their time and money and resources to help
those who are less privileged than they are, then it's easy to believe that
there's hope in this world for a better world, one that we're hopefully working
towards every moment we live.
When I see kids
sharing with each other; athletes demonstrating good sportsmanship; students
acting with integrity and character; mothers and fathers treating their
children with dignity and respect; successful people sharing credit with others
who contributed to their success; husbands and wives being faithful to their
spouses; "famous" people showing humility; researchers devoting their time and energy to developing products
and medicines that will serve humankind--the list could be endless--I realize
that there are far more people working to contribute to the goodness in the
world than there are trying to harm the world and the people in it.
In theory, of
course, I don't need to witness any of these things to know in my heart that
human beings are basically good, caring, and compassionate. But it seems
that many people are afraid of showing that side of themselves, so sometimes
it's nice to be reminded that this world basically is a very good, very
positive place in which to live. And the people who are here with us want
to contribute to the positive side of life, even if all of them aren't able to
do so because of their fears or insecurities.
I'm very grateful
when others make it easy for me to see the goodness, for those are the times
when I feel most optimistic about the lives we're leading and the world in
which we're leading them. Their example makes me want to emulate them,
and it thus becomes even easier for me to contribute to life in positive ways
myself.
For those of you
who make it easier for me: thank you! I owe you a tremendous debt
of gratitude!
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