Psychiatrist
and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl once wrote, ¡°Life is never made unbearable
by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.¡± For most people,
feeling happy and finding life meaningful are both important and related goals.
But do happiness and meaning always go together? It seems unlikely, given that
many of the things that we regularly choose to do – from running marathons to
raising children – are unlikely to increase our day-to-day happiness. Recent
research suggests that while happiness and a sense of meaning often overlap,
they also diverge in important and surprising ways. Roy Baumeister and his
colleagues recently published a study in the Journal of Positive
Psychology that helps explain some of the key differences between a
happy life and a meaningful one. They asked almost 400 American adults to fill
out three surveys over a period of weeks. The surveys asked people to answer a
series of questions their happiness levels, the degree to which they saw their
lives as meaningful, and their general lifestyle and circumstances. As one might
expect, people¡¯s happiness levels were positively correlated with whether they
saw their lives as meaningful. However, the two measures were not identical –
suggesting that what makes us happy may not always bring more meaning, and vice
versa. To probe for differences between the two, the researchers examined the
survey items that asked detailed questions about people¡¯s feelings and moods,
their relationships with others, and their day-to-day activities. Feeling happy
was strongly correlated with seeing life as easy, pleasant, and free from
difficult or troubling events. Happiness was also correlated with being in good
health and generally feeling well most of the time. However, none of these
things were correlated with a greater sense of meaning. Feeling good most of
the time might help us feel happier, but it doesn¡¯t necessarily bring a sense
of purpose to our lives.
Interestingly,
their findings suggest that money, contrary to popular sayings, can indeed buy
happiness. Having enough money to buy what one needs in life, as well as what
one desires, were also positively correlated with greater levels of happiness.
However, having enough money seemed to make little difference in life¡¯s sense
of meaning. This same disconnect was recently found in a multi-national study conducted by Shigehiro Oishi and Ed Diener, who show that people
from wealthy countries tend to be happier, however, they don¡¯t see their lives
as more meaningful. In fact, Oishi and Diener found that people from poorer
countries tend to see their lives as more meaningful. Although the reasons are
not totally clear, this might be related to greater religious belief, having
more children, and stronger social ties among those living in poorer countries.
Perhaps instead of saying that ¡°money doesn¡¯t buy happiness,¡± we ought to say
instead that ¡°money doesn¡¯t buy meaning.¡±
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